The Sky is Falling....!

During our Group 3:16 meeting last Wednesday we talked about worry and fear and how neither one can add a single minute to our lives.  We looked at some of what Jesus has to say about fear and how he doesn't want our limited energy going into worry and fear because the vast majority of what we worry about never comes true.  I told the kids that it isn't possible to not worry at all, and God isn't telling us to stop worrying completely because that isn't possible.  What God wants us to do is to take our worries to Him and to talk to him about or fears and worries.  In doing so we'll let God help us with our fear and tap into the Spirit's vast power.  

After the big group we broke into smaller groups and I asked my group what their biggest fear was.  Want to guess at their response?  Nope, not grades, not girls, not pimples...Ebola.  Their biggest fear was contracting Ebola.  I told them their lives must be going pretty good if they're concerned with contracting a disease that is pretty hard to catch.  Then, and I don't know if this was helpful or not, I told them if they want to worry about a disease worry about influenza.  If we really need something to worry about, they say, worry about getting your flu shots. From 1976 through 2007, flu-related causes killed between 3,000 and 49,000 people in the U.S.  From CNN website.

The hysteria around Ebola continues to amaze me.  I feel for the families that have been stricken with this disease, but the level of worry and speculation and downright hysteria that has come with this disease amazes me.  I wonder why.  Why do we jump to such hysteria?  Why do we spend any time worrying about a disease that many, if not all, of us will never deal with.  I understand it's possible, and by possible I mean in the same ballpark as the Vikings winning a Superbowl possible, the disease could mutate and things could get much worse.  Heck any disease I suppose could mutate and we could all be infected, but is that something to worry about?  Can we do anything to control it?

Fear comes from misunderstanding and not understanding something.  We fear what we don't understand and unfortunately that fear generally leads to dumb decisions and anger.  When we let fear control our lives we are demonstrating that we truly don't trust God.  If we live in fear then we don't truly believe that God is in control.  As I said above we can't not worry completely, and we can't live without any fear.  What we can do is not allow that worry and fear to rule our lives.  We can talk to God about our fear and let God work through us to help us address that fear and work through it.  Don't let worry and fear keep you from experiencing God.  

Nothing to see here

Our confirmation class just went over the story of Noah and the flood.  As part of the learning I had the kids listen to a narrative version of the story and right down thoughts, questions,  and insights they had as the heard to story.  As usual they had some good ones.  Of course the obvious question was, "why?"  Why did God kill everyone and everything?  Taping into my vast knowledge of the Bible I responded with, "why do you think God did it?"  They had some good responses, but what I like the most was when we looked at characteristics of God in the story.  I asked them to tell me some traits God displayed...anger, frustration, sadness...compassion.  Huh, God kills everything on earth except Noah's family and a 2 animals of every kind and we call that compassion?  That's like burning an ant colony and leaving one or two to start over.  Doesn't sound like compassion to me.  

Well it is compassion if you consider that God could have just obliterated everyone and everything and started over completely.  God gave us a second chance.  Of course we talked about this story being literally true and the possibility it is simply a story to give us a better idea of the way God works and how God wants us to live.  Either way we are to find out what God wants us to learn from this story.  "Don't make him angry," was one response I liked.  But we tended to focus more on the compassionate side of God allowing a way out and promising never to destroy the earth again with a flood.  

Then I asked the tough question, "Is it much different today as it was back when the flood happened?  Are we as a human race doing much better?"  What do you think?  Hard to imagine people were treating each other worse back in the days of Noah.  So why doesn't God just wipe us out again and start over?  Maybe because he promised not to, maybe because He continues to work through us to make us better people, maybe because God doesn't have the energy to start over again.  The truth is we don't know the mind of God, but what we do know is that God has provided a way for us to be in direct relationship with Him and that's through Jesus.  The death and resurrection of Jesus shows us all just how much God loves us, and it is because God loves us that much we should be working to spread that love to everyone.  We were created in God's image and we have that ability to share a glimpse of God with everyone and anyone.  The question is are we willing to do it?  God gives us all kinds of chances to get it right.  Will we grasp one of those chances and let others too?  Let's hope so!

Why am I fat?

Wow!  Talk about an eye catching headline.  I've been doing some reading on the internet and it seems that news organizations will sensationalize a headline just so you'll click on it.  Hold the phone!  Things on the internet may not be what they seem?!?!  Websites may use some hyperbole to get you to click on an article!?!  I hope you sensed the sarcasm, and I'll also confess this article isn't going to reveal why I'm fat or even if I think I'm fat.  I simply couldn't ignore a chance to put a sensational headline out there and see if it drew you in.  So if you're reading this I apologize for the deception and please continue reading.

Why do we as humans put off doing what we know is good for us unless we see immediate rewards for doing so?  I think we can all agree that eating healthy and exercising will help us live a better life, but a lot of times the rewards of such a lifestyle aren't immediately felt and consequently the adverse effects of not eating right and not exercising aren't immediately evident either.  Without the instant gratification we tend not to want to put the effort in for the long haul pay off...right.  Diet and exercise are a great example.  A thought...if eating right and being in shape were so important then why did God make all the bad for us food taste so darn good and exercising a pain in the butt?!  We all know that losing weight and keeping it off is much harder than gaining weight...well I shouldn't generalize maybe we all don't know that immutable fact but I sure do.  I know that down the line I'm going to pay for a bad diet and lack of exercise, but I feel pretty good now so there's little motivation to change...does that sound familiar?  No immediate gratification so change and dedication is hard.  I got to thinking...

Does our spiritual life reflect that belief too?  We don't see an immediate pay off for attending church, getting our kids up and to Sunday school, spending time alone with God, and working on our relationship with God.  Oh sure we might feel a tingling of the Spirit if we pray or do read Scripture or make it to a worship service, but any reward after that isn't too immediate.  Just like diet and exercise it takes discipline to keep at it and the more we keep at it the more we enjoy the positive aspects...especially down the line.  I'm not saying there are not immediate rewards for working on our relationship with God and with other people, but generally they aren't real obvious right away.  I also wonder if we think about the consequence of not nurturing our relationship with God when our time comes at the end of our life.  Yup...I'm talking about heaven and hell.  Do you think we can just float through life with just a little effort invested in what is supposed to be our most important relationship and then when we meet face to face God will just forgive us and say, "job well done my good and faithful servant?"

I don't know.  I don't worry about who's in and who's out because that is up to God.  And I truly don't believe in threatening people with hell if they don't follow God.  Besides, I'm not even real clear on my own theology surrounding heaven and hell.  I do know that just as much as we like to talk about grace and forgiveness we need to think a little bit about judgment and justice too.  I also know we need work at strengthening our relationship with God for as long as we're alive.  Besides the possible big benefit at the end, we can experience all kinds of blessings during our life that we'd missed out on if we ignored that relationship and didn't nourish it.  It isn't rocket science as to what it takes...attending worship to connect with other like minded people and to be challenged and comforted in our faith walk, praying, and reading scripture and generally just spending more time with God whenever we can.  I can't promise immediate gratification, but I can promise if we are disciplined and we can work on improving our relationship with God then we will experience more joy and fulfillment in this life then if we didn't have that relationship and the end will sort itself out at the end.  I guess as always the question is about discipline and where our priorities are.

Hot...It's just hot..and an ice bucket!

I saw a post on Facebook the other day that mentioned just because summer started 2 months late doesn't mean it has to hang on for 2 extra months.  I hate to say it but give me the cold weather.  I'll take it over the skin melting heat any day!  But, maybe that's just the Minnesotan in me speaking.
I have to admit that with a title like the one on this blog and the heat outside I was tempted to do something along the lines of a hell fire and brimstone blog..."you think it's hot here wait until you feel hell!" or something along those lines, but I couldn't bring myself to do it.  I want to talk about me today so I hope you're okay with that.
I don't know if you've heard about or seen this little thing called the ice bucket challenge going around.  If you haven't then I have to ask, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?!  In all seriousness if you haven't heard about the ice bucket challenge visit the ALS website and read about all the money that's been raised for ALS research.  I have to admit I've taken part in the challenge and yes my family has donated to ALS.  But before last night I was very much a cynic when it came to this challenge.
I would watch the ice buckets being dropped on people's heads and then hear the challenges and I kept wondering if people even truly understood what they were doing.  Did they even know what ALS was?  Did they even donate to the cause or did they simply relish the chance to put a video of themselves on the internet?  Let's just say I wasn't a fan and my cynical side was growing stronger with every video I witnessed.  There are so many other good causes....why do you need water dumped on your head before you'll donate to a charity...why are you wasting perfectly good water?  Could I increase the donations to my church by 1000% if I started a cold pop challange?  Guzzle 12 ounces of your favorite soda pop and then burp out the next three people you challenge and donate to Minden UCC.  Hey, don't steal that idea!  Back from the aside, all good questions and all good reasons for me to keep being cynical...or so I thought.
Well yesterday afternoon my fantastic brother-in-law and his boys challenged me and my boys to do the challenge.  Alex was immediately excited and Isaac needed some time to come around to the idea of getting water dumped on his head.  Of course I was against the whole thing in the very beginning.  I don't like being peer pressured into doing anything, and besides if I want to donate to ALS research I'll do it while I'm perfectly dry thank you.  But, as the boys' excitement grew I saw a chance for a teaching moment.  Before we risked pneumonia I asked the boys why we were doing this?  And then took the time to explain to them that we were raising funds for a terrible disease that science hasn't been able to find a cure or even treatment for.  I told them that we'd do the challenge, and then we'd decide how much they wanted to give to help fund research for the disease.  I actually saw a light come on in their heads when we talked about the devastating nature of ALS and how fortunate we are not to be touched by the disease yet.  Of course they had all kinds of questions as to how you catch it and stuff and it proved to be a great chance to help out a good cause and to remind me and my family how truly blessed we are.
So, my cynical side took a hit yesterday.  I still think the ice bucket challenge is a little hokey, but it is doing great things for ALS research and it helped me bond a little more with the family and remind them, and me, just how much God has blessed us.  So I suppose in the end it was a good thing...just don't tell my cynical side!  No, let's begin the Soda Guzzle challenge and help out a small church in SW Iowa!

Excuses, Excuses...

There are a lot of excuses for not attending church. Can you imagine a dyed- in-the-wool sports fan giving reasons for giving up sports. Can you imagine a sports fan saying, "I'm not going to watch any more football in the fall, no more baseball in the summer, an no more basketball in the winter. I'm not going to attend those games. Forget it! I've had it all. I quit! I will never again attend sports.
 
Here are my 11 reasons:
- Every time I went, they asked for money.
- The people I sat next to were not friendly so I'm not going back.
- The seats were too hard and not comfortable at all.
- The coach never came to my house and visited me.
- The referees make decisions that I can't agree with so 'm not going back.
- The game sometimes went into overtime and I got home late, and I can't stand that!
- The music there wasn't my style of music.
- Games are always scheduled when I am busy. I want to be somewhere else.
- I suspect that I was sitting next to some hypocrites because they came just to see their friends and just sat there and talked the whole time and didn't even participate in the game.
- I was taken to too many games by my parents when I was growing up, and I'm getting away from that. 
- It is so crowded, I didn't have any elbow room and I had to park way out: no room for parking close in. I'm not going back.


In an effort to cover all excuses, one pastor (not sure who or where) came up with this solution.

NO EXCUSE SUNDAY: DEDICATED TO MISSING CHURCH ATTENDEES!
To make it possible for everyone to attend church this Sunday, we are going to have a special “No Excuse Sunday”: Cots will be placed in the foyer for those who say, “Sunday is my only day to sleep in.” There will be a special section with lounge chairs for those who feel that our pews are too hard. Eye drops will be available for those with tired eyes from watching TV late Saturday night. We will have steel helmets for those who say, “The roof would cave in if I ever came to church.” Blankets will be furnished for those who think the church is too cold, and fans for those who say it is too hot. Scorecards will be available for those who wish to list the hypocrites present. Relatives and friends will be in attendance for those who can’t go to church and cook dinner, too. We will distribute “Stamp Out Stewardship” buttons for those that feel the church is always asking for money. One section will be devoted to trees and grass for those who like to seek God in nature. Doctors and nurses will be in attendance for those who plan to be sick on Sunday. The sanctuary will be decorated with both Christmas poinsettias and Easter lilies for those who never have seen the church without them. We will provide hearing aids for those who can’t hear the preacher and cotton wool for those who think he’s too loud! Hope to see you there!


A couple of articles that I came across on the internet that I found thought provoking. I don't have much to add except a challenge I guess...what do you imagine God thinks about our excuses? Can we just casually be a fan all our lives and then when the day comes and we're face to face God will open his/her arms? What about judgment and justice? Does grace just cover it? And, all as long as you say you believe you're fine even though you never really made any sacrifices in your life in the effort to serve Jesus and God's kingdom? I have to tell you I'm starting to ask a lot of these questions and dwell on this...I don't have all the answers but I'm starting to think God requires more than good intentions. I'm not saying church attendance is the golden ticket, but corporate worship is an important way we connect with God, challenge ourselves, and learn about faith. Things that make you say hummmmm...

It's over...It's all over!

It is very hard to believe that our unofficial summer is almost over.  I know that officially summer doesn't end until sometime in September, but by all intents and purposes summer ends August 18th when school begins.  It seems like I just finished watching baseball and t-ball!  Yesterday was one of the rare Sundays we didn't have a lot going on so we took the opportunity to go for a walk/bike ride on the trails in Shelby.  After a treat at Casey's we went home and sat outside reading a book and watching the kids play with friends.  I don't think there is a better way to unwind and prepare for the "busy" season.  I was also reminded that we don't do that enough.
As I'm reflecting on my afternoon spent relaxing I'm also reminded of all the terrible things happening in the world around us.  First off I'm extremely grateful for the safety and freedom I have to be able to spend an afternoon doing as little as I want, and second I'm saddened by those that don't have that ability.  It doesn't take much time at all to watch or read some news and to start thinking that the world is falling to pieces.  From political gridlock at home here to planes being shot out of the sky in the Ukraine to schools being blown up in Gaza to natural disasters to you name it.  It seems like everything is falling apart around us doesn't it?  I've made it a point not to watch too much news unless Jon Stewart is on because he helps keep me sane!
Has God abandoned us to our own devices.  Is there no hope for the human race?  Are we reaping what we have sowed?  Is the second coming right around the corner?  I don't think so.  When I begin to think that things can't get much worse I remember an article I found once that listed all of the trouble people have lived through in the past.  The article broke down history into decades and then listed what happened.  Reading that article gives one some perspective...we've always lived in troubled times and we probably always will.  That's not to say the issues we face now aren't important, but they don't herald the end of the world.  I suppose what I'm trying to say is the world has always been screwed up and it probably always will be so we needn't worry to much.
Another good thing to remember is that no matter what happens God is in control.  God has a plan and God's plan is perfect.  Even though we may never fully understand God's plan, or even agree with it, it gives me, at least, a sense of peace knowing that through it all God is in control and one day it'll all work out.  No matter how loudly political foes scream at each other and no matter how nuts the rest of the world seems we can take heart in knowing there is a plan and the one in control of that plan knows a lot more than we do!  So what shall we do?  Have faith that things will work out and find ways to make a difference in our own little part of the world.  If we all did what we could in our own communities transformation wouldn't be far off.  We can't solve the worlds' problems on our own, but if we remain faithful and do what God calls us to do for our neighbors then we'll make our own little part of the world better and I believe that's all God asks.  So instead of burying your head in the sand, see how you can make a difference right in your own neighborhood.  And remember...God's got it!

Vacation is good!

What a great time we had on vacation.  We were able to spend some time with great friends and family.  It was the first time I had taken two Sundays in a row off and even though we were only gone ten days when we returned it felt like I had been gone forever.  We even survived a week with the sister-in-law and her 6 month old son!  He actually is a great baby and uncle's don't have to change diapers so all was grand.  Vacations are something that I think all of us need and probably don't get enough of.
One of the best things about vacations is they let you get away from the normal hectic routine of life and offer a chance to recharge and reset a little bit.  I don't think I knew how much I needed to get away and recharge until after I got back home and felt relaxed and rejuvenated.  Sometimes when you're in the rat race of life you don't realize the need to step back and step away for awhile until you get a chance to and enjoy it so much.  I know it's not realistic to be able to take multiple day vacations very often during the year, unless you're a pastor and only work one day a week, but I think it is vital to our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being to get away and break the routine once in awhile.
Even if we can't take days off we still need to find time to feed our souls and regenerate our batteries if you will.  How each of us goes about doing that is different for each person.  Hopefully all of us know what feeds us and what recharges our soul.  Whether it be reading a good book, watching silly TV shows, playing catch with the kids, having coffee with friends, meditating, praying or whatever, we need to be diligent about carving out space to enjoy those times.  Sometimes we get so busy with life that our blinders are on and all we can think about is keeping our head above water and getting to the next task.  Well, if you're anything like me when that happens for very long you aren't a very nice person to be around.  When I neglect to take care of myself I find myself being grumpy and a general stick in the mud.  When that happens I need to find time to break the routine even if it is for only 15 or 30 minutes.  I know I need to recharge or my family is going to tie me up for awhile.
I get into trouble because I tend to think that making time for myself is selfish.  I tend to think that I should be all about others and that any time I spend only on myself is taking away from others.  Well, there has to be a balance.  Yes we can't be all about ourselves, but we won't do anyone much good if we run ourselves raged trying to be all things for all people.  Taking time to slow down, recharge, rejuvenate, and take a vacation is not selfish.  In fact I'd say it is vital to our well being.  By taking care of ourselves we are better able to take care of others around us.  So I challenge you to find time to break the routine, get away even if it's 30 minutes locked in your bathroom reading a favorite book, so you can nourish your soul  and keep from being run silly in the rat race of life.